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Are there phrases that make your teeth grind? You bet. However, you may be surprised by how many you too use. For example, at the end of the day comes in as one of top five most annoying terms. Exactly what time is the end of the day?
Anyway, let's move on. Is that a segue to another thought? Then there is the philosophical it is what it is. It, you know, sure is. That, along with the teen favorite, "like," can drive us all to distraction, if overused. And the number one most annoying term is whatever—a conversation stopper if there ever was one.
While we work hard to be recognized for our individual styles, we do tend to pick up expressions from other people and lose our uniqueness. The "net net" (not on the list, but should be) of these annoying terms and other clichés is analogous to the Polo logo. It was hot at first but, once you saw it everywhere, it lost all perception of value. Keep that in mind when conversing, presenting or taking part in meetings.
It takes practice to eliminate these terms from our speech. "Don't beat yourself up" if one escapes. Just take note. With awareness, eventually, these terms will work their way out of your vocabulary…if that’s what you want..."whatever!"
From Claudia Coplon and Steve Clements of Executive Speak/Write, oral and written communications trainers who are, "like," ready to help you differentiate yourself when you speak and write.
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